Falling in Love with What’s Real
a note from Alicia Staley Johnson
“Delicate Blooms” by Alicia Staley Johnson
Hi Friends,
We spent the Fourth of July surrounded by family, soaking in the sunshine (and the ridiculous heat and humidity that came with it) with the help of our trusty placeholder Costco blow-up pool. It wasn’t glamorous, but it was perfectly us—and honestly, sometimes that’s the best kind of celebration.
And this year, we had something extra special to celebrate—our youngest announced her engagement on Thursday, and we couldn’t be happier for the two of them! Great things to look forward to in the coming year!
We hope you, too, had a safe and joyful Fourth, surrounded by the people you care about most.
This week’s newsletter is full of reflections, stories, and some very exciting news—including what’s been on my heart as a photographer lately, a magical portrait experience in Arles, an upcoming magazine cover (!!!), and a client spotlight that will inspire you.
I’m so glad you’re here. Let’s dive in.
Alicia
The Problem with Perfect: How AI Is Changing Photography Expectations
This week has been a barrage of edit requests—one after another, from several different clients. I spent the better part of my week revising images, tweaking details so small that no one else would likely notice them. I even had a client request “Make all the edits! Make me beautiful.”... followed by a request to undo them because the images looked too perfect. (Which I completely understand.)
But it opened my eyes to something deeper—a growing shift in expectations, fueled by the incredible capabilities we now have with editing tools and AI. And it made me pause.
In a world of flawless filters and AI edits, it's easy to forget what photography has always truly been about:
Not perfection. Not polish.
But presence.
Photography isn’t meant to erase reality—it’s meant to honor it.
Not the version of life with every wrinkle smoothed or every stray hair in place.
But the now.
The real, fleeting, often beautifully imperfect moment you're in.
I’ll be honest—I am so guilty of chasing perfection too.
As a photographer, I want you to look and feel your best. I understand the desire to tweak, smooth, and fine-tune. But lately, it feels like we’ve crossed a line.
It’s no longer about enhancing a moment—it’s about erasing it.
And I worry that we’re starting to lose the soul of what makes a photo meaningful.
Maybe your child’s collar wasn’t perfectly straight.
Maybe the wind didn’t cooperate.
Maybe the light hit just a little differently than expected.
And yet—those are the photos that become the most meaningful.
Because they tell the truth.
Because they feel like you.
We’re living in a time where “fix it in post” has become the default. But what if we didn’t fix everything? What if we left just enough undone to let the moment breathe?
The heart of photography has never been perfection.
It’s always been connection.
Here’s to letting go a little.
To the unposed, and the unexpectedly beautiful.
To the moments that aren’t just picture-perfect, but perfectly real.
And if you’re wondering—yes, I will still be editing the same but dialing It back (it won’t be a noticeable change because most of my photography edits happen at the time of the shoot not in post). I’ll still do the gentle refinements:
🧡 I’ll smooth flyaways (unless the wind is part of the story).
🧡 I’ll remove blemishes and soften dark circles and brighten eyes.
🧡 I’ll slightly soften facial wrinkles—but only softly because aging is a blessing, not a flaw.
But anything beyond that?
It starts to erase the very story we’re trying to tell.
If this resonates with you as a photographer, I’ve written a professional version about this in a little more detail here on my blog.
A Portrait in Arles
While wandering the streets of Arles, France, we came across a photographer, Guillaume Koessler, using an old street box camera—a rare relic of a camera from another era. I was completely captivated. Right there, on the stone steps of a centuries-old building, he took our portrait using a Cámara Minutera, a type of wooden camera that functions both as a camera and a darkroom.
He carefully prepared the paper, composed the image upside-down on a ground glass, and developed it by hand inside the box. Within minutes, we had a one-of-a-kind black-and-white portrait, complete with an abundance of grain, bokeh, and depth that no digital filter could ever replicate.
And I’ll admit it—I totally geeked out over the entire process. The craftsmanship, the chemistry, the slowness of it all… it was pure magic. Watching someone create an image this way, right in front of you, with light and hands and care, felt like stepping into a different time.
It’s imperfect, tactile, real—and it tells a story.
There’s something deeply meaningful about being photographed like this. No retouching. No second takes. Just light, time, chemistry, and connection. This image now lives in my heart as one of the most cherished portraits we’ve ever had taken.
The street box camera, also known as a “Cámara Minutera” or Afghan Box Camera. These cameras are part camera, part darkroom, allowing photographers to shoot and develop prints right inside the box using traditional wet process techniques. It's a rare, hands-on, old-world method—making every portrait a piece of handmade photographic art.
These cameras date back to the early 20th century and were often used for passport or street portraits throughout Europe, Latin America, and Afghanistan. They combine the charm of large-format photography with the instant magic of watching your image appear right there on the street. The fact that our Image was done in Arles, France—home of the legendary Rencontres d’Arles photo festival—makes it even more special.
Hosting Something Beautiful?
Just a little reminder—our studio is now available to rent for intimate events and creative gatherings! Whether you’re planning a bridal shower, baby shower, small wedding ceremony, or workshop, our charming space is designed to make your moment feel extra special.
Since opening up availability just a month ago, we’ve already booked three bridal showers and a small wedding ceremony for 30 guests—and my heart is so full. It’s truly a joy to see our studio come alive with celebration, laughter, and love.
If you’re looking for a beautiful, light-filled, one-of-a-kind venue for your next event or creative experience, I’d be honored to share it with you.
Let’s make something meaningful together.
For more information and to inquire, go to our studio page.
For indoor and outdoor events for up to 45 people. We have two patios, A permanent life size chess board, european gardens, rose filled arbors, private tree lined property and so much more.
A Cover Story Moment!
I’m beyond thrilled to share some exciting news—I received an email this week from Naperville Magazine letting me know that one of my images will be featured on the cover of an upcoming issue!
I can’t wait to see which image Editor Jen Banowetz selects for the cover—it’s always a bit of magic to see how someone else curates your work. I’m also really looking forward to reading the article written by Journalist, Jeff Banowetz, who interviewed me recently about my photography, creative process, and more.
Being featured in a local publication that I admire means so much, and I’m truly honored. I’ll be sure to share the final cover and story with you as soon as it’s out!
CLIENT SPOTLIGHT: Lindsey Vidmar - Artist and Founder of Mila’s Painted Paws
Some stories come full circle in the most beautiful way. Lindsey Vidmar was one of our 2020 senior models—a joyful, artistic soul with a deep love for animals. Today, she’s the heart and hands behind Mila’s Painted Paws, where she creates soulful, lifelike pet portraits that feel like love letters on canvas.
What began as a quiet moment of inspiration—painting her dog Mila out of boredom—sparked a journey that would shape her path in the most meaningful way. Now at 22, Lindsey has turned her passion into a purposeful business rooted in connection, compassion, and creativity.
In this interview, she shares how art became her calling, the tender process behind each pet portrait, and how she uses her work to give back to Chicagoland shelters. Whether you’re an animal lover, a fellow dreamer, or someone who believes in following your heart, Lindsey’s story is one that will stay with you.
Let’s step into her world...
Your path from senior model in 2020 to artist and animal advocate is such a beautiful evolution. Can you take us back to the moment you realized that painting pets was more than just a hobby — that it was a calling?
As I made my way through high school, my journey truly began. One night, out of pure boredom, I painted a portrait of my dog Mila — a single painting that unexpectedly sparked something bigger than I could have imagined.Our bond has been undeniable from the very start. She has been my purpose all along, rooted in the deep connection and love we share.
What started as a simple hobby by a girl who adored dogs (and really, any animal) has now grown into a passion that happily shapes my life every day. Focusing on pet portraiture allowed me not only to build on what I already knew, but also to keep learning and growing with every piece I created. From the beginning, I knew in my heart that if I was going to pursue this path, I wanted it to make a difference. And what better way to do that than by giving back to the furry friends still waiting for their forever homes? Now, at 22, I’ve taken countless steps forward on this journey, and every high and low over the past five years has shaped me for the better. The ups and downs, the trial and error — it’s all been part of an experience I wouldn’t trade for anything. It can be scary to step outside the box and easy to fall into comparison, but I’ve learned to embrace the challenges, trust the path I’m on and just truly do what you love! I wouldn’t have it any other way.
Your pet portraits are more than likenesses — they feel like love stories on canvas. What’s your process for getting to know an animal’s soul, especially when you’re working from a photo or secondhand story?
As I connect with clients, I’m often lucky enough to hear special glimpses of their stories, always accompanied by the sweetest photos. Getting to bond with these animals and their people in such a unique and lasting way brings me so much daily joy. There’s nothing more rewarding than turning the beautiful connections, like the one Mila and I share, into meaningful keepsakes that will be treasured for a lifetime. From experiencing drop off days and getting to see the personality behind images sent to me, down to hearing how my work has touched someone’s life means the world to me.
You volunteer your time and talents with local animal shelters — can you share what that work looks like and how it’s shaped your view of compassion, both as an artist and as a person?
When I first started looking for ways to give back through my art, I was just 17 , nervous, uncertain, and unsure of how it would all unfold. Before Mila’s Painted Paws even had a name, my very first fundraiser was able to donate over $600 worth of supplies to three local shelters during the holiday season. Since then, giving back has stayed at the heart of what I do. Every year during the holidays, a portion of every portrait purchased goes directly to a Chicagoland animal shelter. I also love partnering with different shelters for events and donations, sharing my heart, my art, and my mission with my community while lending a helping hand, no matter how big or small.
With five dogs of my own, finding the time to volunteer in person can be challenging, but being able to contribute in this way makes me feel connected to another support system for animals in need. It reminds me every day how important it is to give back to the ones who can’t ask for help themselves.
Living with five dogs must bring so much energy (and chaos!) to your daily life. How have they influenced your creative process — and what have they taught you about presence, patience, or even grief?
Chaos is definitely the right word — but in the best way possible! Having five dogs, each with their own unique personality, has not only expanded my creativity but has also taught me so much about the bonds we share with our pets. Every day, they show me how different personalities shine through, how relationships grow, and how deeply animals connect with us and with each other. It’s almost impossible to complete a painting without a few wagging tails or sloppy kisses nearby — and honestly, I wouldn’t have it any other way. The love and connection I see in my own dogs inspires me daily and reminds me just how special the bond is between my clients and their furry family members, too.
As you move through college and dream about the future, what kind of legacy do you hope your art will leave — not just for pet owners, but for how we value the emotional lives of animals?
One of the most important parts of my work is sharing the same joy I feel while creating each piece with the people who receive it. With every painting, I know I’m doing more than just capturing a face — I’m honoring the love we share with our furry companions, celebrating those who are still with us, and keeping alive the memory of those who have crossed the rainbow bridge. Pet owners understand better than anyone that they’re never “just a dog” or “just a cat”, they’re family, loyal friends who love us unconditionally and make our lives whole. My greatest hope is that every portrait reminds my clients just how special that bond truly is.
Lindsey’s journey is a beautiful reminder that passion, when paired with heart, can become purpose. Her portraits speak volumes—not just about the pets she paints, but about the bond we share with the animals who shape our lives.
It was such a joy to have Lindsey back in the studio for her headshots. Capturing the artist she’s become, and seeing the same spark she had as a senior model now glowing even brighter.
We can’t wait to see where her brush (and her heart) lead her next.
WHAT I’M LOVING THIS WEEK
Inspiring Follow: I started following @Dominiqueludwig_nutrition because her approach to nutrition is equal parts science, compassion, and real-life wisdom. She connects the dots between food, health, and healing in a way that feels clear and empowering. Her content is thoughtful, grounded, and always leaves me inspired to take better care of myself—from the inside out. If you're looking for inspiration that feels both grounded and empowering, Dominique is a must-follow.
What I’m Obsessed With: This might sound silly, but I’ve fallen in love with our new patio umbrella—and not just because it gives the perfect amount of shade. It’s the kind of simple upgrade that makes sitting outside feel just a little more magical. Whether I’m sipping coffee in the morning or watching my grandson splash in the blow-up pool, it’s been the perfect companion for soaking in summer moments without melting in the heat.
Bonus: it’s stylish, sturdy, and easy to tilt with the sun. I didn’t know an umbrella could spark this much joy… but here we are.
Local Love: The Wheaton French Market is one of my absolute favorite ways to spend a Saturday morning. With its charming open-air setup and wonderful selection of fresh local produce, hand-crafted goods, baked treats, flowers, and delicious food and beverages, it truly feels like a little slice of Europe right here in the suburbs. Whether you’re picking up ingredients for dinner or just strolling with a coffee in hand, this market is a joyful celebration of community, creativity, and seasonality.
PHOTOGRAPHY TIP
Photography Tip: Mastering the Exposure Triangle
If you're looking to take more control over your camera and get out of auto mode, understanding the Exposure Triangle is one of the most important first steps.
The Exposure Triangle refers to the relationship between ISO, Shutter Speed, and Aperture—the three key settings that control how much light reaches your camera's sensor. Here’s a quick breakdown:
1. Aperture (f-stop)
Think of this as the “pupil” of your camera. Like your eye, it controls how much light comes through the lens.
Low f-stop (f/1.8) = more light, shallow depth of field (more Bokeh or blurry background).
High f-stop (f/16) = less light, deeper focus (everything sharp).
2. Shutter Speed
This determines how long your camera's shutter stays open. Think of this like your eyelid.
Fast shutter (1/1000 sec) freezes motion.
Slow shutter (1/30 sec) lets in more light but can cause motion blur.
3. ISO
This measures your camera's sensitivity to light.
Low ISO (100) = cleaner image, great for bright conditions.
High ISO (1600+) = better for low light but can add grain/noise.
The Goal? Balance.
Changing one element affects the others. Want a soft, blurry background? Lower your aperture, but you may need a faster shutter or lower ISO to compensate. It’s all about finding the right balance to match your lighting and creative vision.
Take time to experiment with each setting—understanding this triangle gives you full creative control over your images.
This image of Grace Desnoyers Is from our Paris Senior Model Shoot and was taken at an f 4.0 (a lower f stop is what is creating the bokeh/blur), 1/500 shutter speed, and an ISO of 400.
with love and light (and a little photographers reflection this week),
Alicia Staley Johnson
of Alicia’s Photography
Naperville, Wheaton, Glen Ellyn, Plainfield, Downers Grove, Chicago Photographer